How to Be Imperfect in a Perfect World

It can often feel like the world expects perfection from us. That anything less than perfect is unacceptable. Our media tells us day after day what "perfect" looks like, and implies that if we don't meet that standard, something must be wrong with us. We should try harder, do more work, pull ourselves up by our bootstraps.

The challenge is that this is a standard that is often unattainable for the vast majority of us. And this sort of thinking can embed within us a subconscious belief that we are not enough as we are, that we are not worthy unless we can meet this unrealistic standard.

In this week's Wednesday Evening Service, we will explore some of the ideas that author and shame researcher Brené Brown shares in her book, The Gifts of Imperfection, that can help us to unlock our inner perfection, and from that perfection gain a sense of self-worth and resilience so we might live a more wholehearted life.

I look forward to seeing you this Wednesday at 7pm at the Center!

-Russ

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