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Dr. Edward Viljoen at Wednesday Evening - Recovering from Betrayal: Lessons from Holy Wednesday


Betrayal can leave us reeling, lost in a sea of shattered trust and emotional turmoil. Yet, within the stories we've inherited, there are paths forward, lessons on resilience, and recovery that resonate through time. Holy Wednesday, often overshadowed by the more prominent days of Holy Week, offers profound insights into the nature of betrayal and the steps toward healing. Dr. Edward will talk about the story of betrayal, understanding its impact on our peace, and the steps we may take to heal from it.

The Story of Betrayal

Holy Wednesday marks a pivotal moment in the Easter narrativeā€”the day Judas Iscariot chose to betray Jesus for thirty pieces of silver. This act wasn't a mere transaction; it was a breach of deep, personal trust. Judas, one of the twelve disciples, had walked alongside Jesus, sharing in the journey, the teachings, and the miracles. His betrayal set in motion the events leading to the crucifixion, a cornerstone of the Easter story.

Understanding the Impact

Betrayal, as illustrated by Judas's actions, isn't just an external act of treachery; it's an intimate violation of trust that cuts deep, leaving scars that can be felt more acutely than physical pain. The Easter narrative doesn't shy away from these dark moments, instead, it invites us to confront them, to feel the weight of that betrayal, and to reflect on its implications in our own lives.

Steps Toward Healing

  • Acknowledgment
  • Compassion
  • Forgiveness
  • Rebuilding Trust
  • Finding Personal Meaning

Embracing the Journey

Recovery from betrayal is rarely straightforward or easy. It can feel as tumultuous and unpredictable as the events of Holy Week. Yet, within this narrative, there are beacons of hope and pathways to healing. By embracing these lessons, we can find the strength to move forward, rebuild, and find peace in the wake of betrayal.

Just as Holy Wednesday reminds us of the complexities and depths of human relationships, it also illuminates the potential for renewal and forgiveness. Let us take these lessons to heart, allowing them to guide us through our own journeys of recovery and growth.

Join Dr. Edward at the Center, in person, for our Wednesday Evening Service at 7 pm, with freshly baked bread, meditative music, and community.


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